A recent four-day visit to Disneyland Paris was an enlightening experience of the magical world of a genius whose talent had delighted millions of children the world over for many decades.

This was an incredible world of make-believe, yet there was something else I couldn't help but notice, which made me smile and feel safe in this wonderland.

With many young children still on their school holidays, most noticeably the Dutch, children and their parents seemed incredibly relaxed.

Although I could not understand what they were saying, their body language spoke volumes as to how much love and affection existed within these families.

English children were noticeably absent, which is a shame, as I feel they could have taken a leaf out of the books of the Dutch children, who appeared to excel in their behaviour.

The shops were staffed by hospitable and charming people, who aptly addressed you not with not "all right mate!" but the French equivalent of a polite "good day".

The absence of security staff and bouncers, with their trademark shaved heads and intimidating stance, was also noticeable.

I could see no security cameras, no litter and no grafitti.

Sadily, this was not the case, upon my return to England.

As I left the train at Southend Central Station a group of young men were trying out their crude courtship skills on some young girls, who, having refused the demands of their admirers, were met with a barrage of obscenities and foul gesticulation.

The youths then slung their empty beer bottles across the track beneath the train.

Heading up the High Street, I encountered youngsters begging for a bob or two and promptly hurling abuse at anyone who failed to give them money.

Then I got home to read in the Echo how teaching respect was now part of the curriculum at some local schools.

I had time to reflect on the sad state of this country's record on decency, manners and respect.

Sadly, those who enjoy being antisocial now, risk going on to live their autumn years, facing even worse antisocial behaviour - a trend which, unless stopped its tracks now, will be impossible to reverse.

Nick Vince
Rocheway
Rochford